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Wysłany: Śro 9:55, 04 Maj 2011
Temat postu: Gucci Hats Self Esteem Is Not A Test
Realize it's not possible for anybody else to conclude whether you're enough or whether you're loveable. Or due. Or worthwhile.
But when you look deeper, you ask: "Well what, accurate, is being tested?"
The sun brights because all. The sun namely forever luminous. Everyone tin bask in the sun.
That's cried self-esteem. Self-esteem is the estimate you make of yourself. And you're already assessing yourself each minute of each daytime.
There's no greater emotion on this earth than to know I measure up. And that it was not a question of measuring up at the outset! I thought I had to pass some arrange of unspoken test, but those thoughts were really just keeping me from feeling the love.
Am I enough?
Well, what about me is being tested?
"This life is a test. It is only a test. If this had been a real life, you would have received beyond directions on what to do and how to do it."
"Will you take my power and use it for good?"
Am I loveable?
I assess my integrity. My integrity. My level of conscious responsibility. My level of t
Then you conclude: "Me. I am being tested."
Ever listened those words? When you first peruse them, it's about a relief. "Whew! It's equitable a test."
Otherwise, it's favor hiding underground and saying the sun doesn't shine for me.
Bottom line: it's one Outside Authority who's grading you.
Some would say God is doing the testing. My own conclusion is that God is doing the giving, not the testing. Either direction, I discern God as Supreme Authority, not Outside Authority. Huge feud.
Also - return to the basis of self-esteem. Which is: I appraise myself. I am the only 1 who determines my class of esteem. I resolve. I assess.
Another problem with the 'test' concept is that it robs you of your power. You must give your power away apt this Outside Authority. Since an appearance authorization doesn't truly exist, you must reserve giving build up power to speed up people and asset.
You were built. By a Creator. You are adored. End of article. When you really, really get it - that you are adored by the One Who built you - you'll no longer wonder if you're enough. You'll no longer worry about passing a test. That's been my experience.
No. If life is a test, then at definition it have to be graded by distinct. It could be your friends, your sweetheart, your household,
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, your chapel,
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, your job, your co-workers, your paycheck, your automobile,
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, your house... whichever number of entities alternatively human.
Which is impossible. If we get caught in the pitfall of questing outside validation from an outside authority - it's like a downward spiral to extra victimhood and less power. It makes us pile up resentful. More bitter. More blaming. More separate from ourselves and from the world nigh us. Which leads to extra pain.
Here's where it gets interesting. Cause when you strip away the veneer, it all boils down to:
The answer itself is a prevaricate. It's not likely to be unlovable. It's not possible to be unworthy. No stuff how many we masquerade otherwise.
Am I deserving?
There's an pestilence of victimhood in our world today. Seems to be obtaining aggravate. And victimhood always leads to pain.
Meaning; will you validate me? Will you conclude I’m loveable?
What's the solution?
Cause I can go WITH Supreme Authority. It brings me closer to myself. While any outside authority only separates me from myself.
If you're holding the concept of life for a test; then you're also holding the concept of an Outside Authority. Someone other than you is production the decree or the assessment of if or no you pass or fail. That's called victimhood.
It's the definition of self-esteem. But self-esteem is not a test.
So if your loveability is being tested, then who is doing the judging? Who grades the test? If you're grading yourself, then there's no need for a test. Rather, it can be a self-assessment.
Am I worthy?
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